Newsweek’s Case Against Marriage

In the June 11, 2010, edition of Newsweek, Jessica Bennett and Jesse Ellison argue that marriage as traditionally understood no longer makes sense. Here is Al Mohler’s description of the article. As he says,

“One essential task for the Christian Church is to rebuild and maintain a marriage culture — even when marriage itself no longer makes sense to so many around us.”

Congratulations!

Congratulations to our six new deacons-elect: Keith Akin, Rick Appleton, Matt Chandler, Phil Covington, Mark Filer, and Eric Lahr. Stay tuned for information on their ordination and installation service.

(posted 5/24/10)

Parenthood, Porn, and iPads

Parenthood changes the way you see the world, according to Steve Jobs and Al Mohler.

(posted 5/24/10)

Preparing for Sunday

From Ken Ramey’s book, Expository Listening:

“For the majority of people, even church members, church is not the priority of their week. Too often school, work, sports, and other activities take precedence over going to church. They make the mistake of letting their time be ordered by the world, which views the weekends as a time to relax, to play sports, to stay up late and sleep in. For Christians, however, Sunday should be the most important day of the week. You should try to schedule your work, activities, get-togethers, and vacations around church. You should live by the principle that Sunday morning starts Saturday night.”

He offers several practical suggestions on how to prioritize the Lord’s Day:

  • Make it a habit to be home on Saturday night.
  • Be careful not to do, watch, or read anything that will cause lingering distractions in your mind the next day.
  • Get things ready on Saturday night to alleviate the typical Sunday morning rush (lay out clothes, set the table, write the offering check, stock the diaper bag, etc).
  • Get a good night’s sleep so you can be sharp and energetic to worship and serve God. It’s hard to listen when you’re nodding off.
  • Eat a simple but adequate breakfast that will hold you until lunch. It’s difficult to hear over the grumbling of your stomach.
  • Work together with the other members of your family to get ready, and to establish and maintain a godly atmosphere on the way to church. Listen to music, sing, and pray together.
  • Arrive at church ten minutes early instead of ten minutes late so you have enough time to find a parking spot, drop the kids off in the nursery or their Sunday school classes, get a cup of coffee, visit with your friends, and find a seat.

“When you fail to plan ahead,” he warns, “Sunday morning ends up becoming a chaotic crisis, and by the time you get to church, you are frustrated and frazzled and your heart is in no condition to receive the Word. But when you plan well and are able to arrive in a relaxed, leisurely way, you will be in a much more receptive frame of mind.”

(posted 5/9/10)

Provocativeness

Here’s a great quote from Mark Dever, pastor of Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Washington, DC. He’s speaking with pastors in mind, but it applies to all believers:

“The world around you has a very cheapened form of provocativeness. It’s about style. It’s about your website not looking like anybody else’s website. It’s about things that are passing.
 
“The kind of provocativeness you want is not the kind of cheap provocativeness of style. It’s the kind of provocativeness that is living in a kind of way that doesn’t make any sense if you are trying to make it all add up this side of the grave.
 
“I’m concerned that all of us by nature live in such a way that we try to make it okay here, where, if Christianity isn’t really true, it’s okay, because I’m really getting a pretty good deal out of it. You really don’t want to live like that.”
(posted 5/7/10)