Does Your Pastor Know You?

How accessible to you is your pastor? Is he available to you? Does he know you? Here is an interesting blog post by Carl Trueman (of Westminster Seminary in Philadelphia) on the subject. An excerpt…

“I am immensely grateful that I have only ever held membership in churches of a size where the pastor has always been accessible and available.  Indeed, my pastors have always even known my name, my wife’s name, my kids’ names, and even what sports they play (this latter may seem trivial but it has been peculiarly important to me: my kids may not always enjoy going to church; but they have never doubted that the pastor actually cares for them; and that is something for which I am more grateful than I can articulate).  Indeed, each of my pastors has cared about his people, not as a concept or a good idea or as an indeterminate mass, but as real, particular people with names and histories and strengths and weaknesses; and this surely reflects the character and love of God who, after, calls his sheep by name and cares for us all as individuals. If I gave you the names of said pastors, few reading this post would ever have heard of them: they have written no books; they have never pulled in huge crowds; and they have never spoken at megaconferences.  But they have always been there when even the humblest church member has called out for advice, counsel or even help with bailing out a flooded basement.”

Members of OPPC, I know who you are! And you can call me any time–even for a flooded basement.

(posted 8/30/10)

Parenthood, Porn, and iPads

Parenthood changes the way you see the world, according to Steve Jobs and Al Mohler.

(posted 5/24/10)

Preparing for Sunday

From Ken Ramey’s book, Expository Listening:

“For the majority of people, even church members, church is not the priority of their week. Too often school, work, sports, and other activities take precedence over going to church. They make the mistake of letting their time be ordered by the world, which views the weekends as a time to relax, to play sports, to stay up late and sleep in. For Christians, however, Sunday should be the most important day of the week. You should try to schedule your work, activities, get-togethers, and vacations around church. You should live by the principle that Sunday morning starts Saturday night.”

He offers several practical suggestions on how to prioritize the Lord’s Day:

  • Make it a habit to be home on Saturday night.
  • Be careful not to do, watch, or read anything that will cause lingering distractions in your mind the next day.
  • Get things ready on Saturday night to alleviate the typical Sunday morning rush (lay out clothes, set the table, write the offering check, stock the diaper bag, etc).
  • Get a good night’s sleep so you can be sharp and energetic to worship and serve God. It’s hard to listen when you’re nodding off.
  • Eat a simple but adequate breakfast that will hold you until lunch. It’s difficult to hear over the grumbling of your stomach.
  • Work together with the other members of your family to get ready, and to establish and maintain a godly atmosphere on the way to church. Listen to music, sing, and pray together.
  • Arrive at church ten minutes early instead of ten minutes late so you have enough time to find a parking spot, drop the kids off in the nursery or their Sunday school classes, get a cup of coffee, visit with your friends, and find a seat.

“When you fail to plan ahead,” he warns, “Sunday morning ends up becoming a chaotic crisis, and by the time you get to church, you are frustrated and frazzled and your heart is in no condition to receive the Word. But when you plan well and are able to arrive in a relaxed, leisurely way, you will be in a much more receptive frame of mind.”

(posted 5/9/10)

Provocativeness

Here’s a great quote from Mark Dever, pastor of Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Washington, DC. He’s speaking with pastors in mind, but it applies to all believers:

“The world around you has a very cheapened form of provocativeness. It’s about style. It’s about your website not looking like anybody else’s website. It’s about things that are passing.
 
“The kind of provocativeness you want is not the kind of cheap provocativeness of style. It’s the kind of provocativeness that is living in a kind of way that doesn’t make any sense if you are trying to make it all add up this side of the grave.
 
“I’m concerned that all of us by nature live in such a way that we try to make it okay here, where, if Christianity isn’t really true, it’s okay, because I’m really getting a pretty good deal out of it. You really don’t want to live like that.”
(posted 5/7/10)

Six Words to Open a Gospel Conversation

This from Don Whitney, Simplify Your Spiritual Life:

Over and over I’ve seen one simple question open people’s hearts to hear the gospel. Until I asked this question, they showed no interest in spiritual matters. But then after six words—only seventeen letters in English—I’ve seen people suddenly begin to weep and their resistance fall. The question is, “How can I pray for you?”

This may not seem like such a powerful question to you. Perhaps that’s because you hear it, or a question like it, quite often. Your Bible study group or your church prayer meeting asks for prayer requests every week. You may even see requests for prayer solicited each Sunday morning in the worship bulletin.

But realize that most people in the world never hear such a question. And while many churchgoers know that a minister is willing to pray for them, in some traditions they’re expected to make a special donation to the church for such services. So when you ask, “How can I pray for you?” and it’s obvious that you’re asking out of love alone, it can touch a person more deeply than you imagine.

(posted 5/5/10)